Perception and Positive attitude: The two main important factors while analyzing the circumstances and events of life are strong perception and a positive attitude. You all want a smooth and peaceful life and a great career to possess, however you choose upon the easier and simpler tasks so that you can just finish the same on time. By doing so, you lead a path which is mostly travelled and needs less instincts to be followed. Your own positivity and perception are lost as you keep walking on the foot prints of others, forgetting what they would have really achieved at the end. Even for a person like me who wants to write everything about having a strong and clear perception and positive attitude, many times I lack having the same as if missed out in the routine and not given enough credence. I have faced it couple of times when I have not been able to write positively, the reader has not valued it and its being less appreciated.
Napoleon Hill said, “Whatever the mind of man can conceive and believe, it can achieve.”
Few years ago I decided to bring some positive changes in my life by focusing more on the optimistic point of view and having strong perception to follow the same. This was the positive state of my mind where I chose to travel the less travelled path and design a road for self facing problems. I very well knew the path is less travelled and would not be full of experiences and examples to set and less guidance to be attained; however the less travelled path seemed to me more exciting and challenging. There was a transformation in me while doing so, and I realized few facts of living a happy life with positive attitude and believing on my own perception for situations in life. I would like to make you go through the positive feelings which made me live happier and climb stairs steadily in personal as well professional front.
- Initiate with strong positive feelings when you start a day/ task or work; this would enable you have more positive people around and when you are charged up with energy, the energy flows back to you. Don’t drag yourself to do a work, instead take each work as priority and do it with sheer perfection and dedication, you will feel less stressed out and achieve positive results.
- Read positive books, follow audio and video tapes to bring you close to positivity and make it a routine avoiding all the negativity around. Soon you would realize as if an eternal force is helping you achieve your goals.
- Your perception and language shape up your attitude, you must read to excel and vision strongly to attain, talk positively to people around, have clear perception in what to be done, use words like “awesome” “amazing” “fantastic” “beautiful” “ outstanding”, and you would soon realize all coming your way.
- Have gratitude and attitude to respect, appreciate and thank people for any help they render. This way you come close to positive people around and attract positivity. Your attitude to have gratitude would take you to the next level of wisdom and depicts you as a refined personality, people look up at you admire.
- Reinforce yourself with regular battery charging up schedules, you stop at one point charge yourself with positivity and go back with full fledge, you demonstrate a strong persona to others.
- Believe that you have the power, no one else can cheer you up more than yourself; dig out within to know yourself better. You have that power inside which needs to be blast for good, do a regular exercise of talking to self for few minutes, this would give you solutions to many problems and encounter you with the hidden power you possess.
- Embrace life at every situation good or bad, just put yourself to imaginary dead bed and understand time stands still for no one. You are on this earth for a purposeful life and live it to the best. Take your decisions now and don’t prolong, start today to excel tomorrow.
- Design your attitude yourself and control your reactions, no one else can refine you the way you can do yourself. You and only you have known self better than others; you have to work on your reactions and attitude so as to present the best. You have to make it a practice to be excellent at anything you do whether personal or professional. If you learn your perception towards something was wrong, don’t wait for others to point out, rather take yourself on task and do it immediately.
- You have to believe that you are more than just being enough, your perception towards yourself and attitude to accept things would acquaint you with the better you hidden inside. Keep yourself calm at facing troubles and issues, your positive outlook would help you facing troubles with ease and take a rational decision. If you panic and go negative you lose its sight of being correct.
- Life doesn’t come with a guarantee card and you are not aware of your future so instead looking for a perfect destination, focus on travelling perfectly and live each moment as if it was the last one for you, you would notice a 360 degree change in your attitude and perception.
William James a psychologist said, “The greatest discovery of my generation is that human beings can alter their lives by altering their attitude of mind.”
An attitude to succeed and overcome any obstacles of your life, a perception to not only perceive things rightly but to change your perception to do right, is something you would not learn by school education or degree in college but would have to discover it within. The insight to this eBook is only meant for yourself realization; make you a better in your league but to introduce the hidden persona and shine brightly to the outer world. I have an example to match my statement here; Oprah Gail Winfrey, born in an ordinary family and raised by single mother, she went through hell in her childhood, neither the best education, nor a good upbringing, yet she is one of the most famous personalities of United States. Winfrey’s positive attitude towards life led a path for success every time she faced a hardship, she accepted the challenge called life and kept climbing ahead in her career. She is known as one of the famous personalities and her talk show is the most known to all, a black female stood firm amongst white men, with courage and attitude to demonstrate, leading the TV industry only due to positive attitude and a strong perception to lead.